It seems that the relationship can be continued only if the drama is still on

Here's an entry sent in by a guy who is married.

Many times, after we have gone into a committed relationship for quite some time, we forget that even though we are united with our partners in some ways, we are still different in terms of our own personal development. It gives me the impression that our friend here has met a partner who is somewhat more forward-moving than himself. Not forward moving is NOT necessary a bad thing.

It is our right to choose how we should live our life, some of us prefer a slow-paced, quiet life, while others prefer to be constantly on the move and wanting to achieve more out of life. There is no right or wrong about all these.

I myself know a lot of couples who are facing similar situations like our friend here. We have here a lady who is constantly moving forward, but prefers to be with a guy who is of a slower pace. This is where all the dramas in every day life and in the relationship will come about. She chooses to be with a guy who prefers a slower pace, but is fussy over his choice of lifestyle, and wanting to help shape his destiny by trying to change him to move forward a bit faster.

And to our friend here, it is not necessary a bad thing to be with such a woman. She could be someone who will inspire you in your life in some ways. The point is, if you change into someone whom she desires you to be, you might be unhappy with yourself. So, if you want to change, make sure you change into someone whom she is happy with, and whom YOU yourself are happy with! And even when that happens, that is usually when the relationship is about to fail. BECAUSE, she has achieved her ends - changing you.

Confusing? Yes, it really is. Ironic? It is!

Relationships between humans are confusing. It might not be easy for anyone to understand. It seems that the relationship can be continued only if the drama is still on - she has someone whom she can try to change, and you are someone still wondering whether you should change or not change...what a challenging and exciting life that is!!!

1) What do want and need in your Relationship (or Marriage)?

That i need her to be more understanding stop thinking that i'm not going to have a career and stop getting mad when i don't want to go to the stores and shop with her, don't get me wrong i go to the store with her it just sometime i like to set home and watch the t.v after work.

2) What do you want and need in Romance and Dating? What EXACTLY do you want from your Mate.

For her to be more sexy, do a little role play wear something sexy around the house.

3) What do you want and need in Sex?

making love real slow, listen to music make the sex last for a wild

4) What do you look for in a Mate (or Soul mate)?

someone that understand me and know that i'm not perfect and that i do make mistakes, someone that i can love for who they are and will love me for who i am

5) What turns you on?

whispering in my ear while touching on my body real slow

6) What kind of woman turns you off?

A quicky

7) What do you (Secretly) wish your partner would know about you if you have a chance to convey that to your mate?

That i cry in the dark when she say something fucked up

8) What is the greatest challenge you have about your relationship/marriage??

She's in college and I am not. She is working toward a career, I am not, not that i don't want to, i just don't know where to start. She tells me i need to grow up and that i don't know how to treat a lady. I feel like i do know how to treat a lady i ask her all the time: "what you want with me when you can have a guy in college?" But she tells me she wants me to get my life together so we can live a professional life together...

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How to revitalize your love vibe to attract more desirable experiences!

You have the ability to radiate and revitalize your love vibe to attract more desirable experiences.

When you feel loving, you will attract more love. Feeling good about yourself, attracts others to you.

1. Feel Motivated and Enthusiastic About Life and LOVE

When your energy goes into all of your relationships it makes it hard to focus on you and what you want to create. It becomes challenging to maintain balanced emotional, mental and physical health. When your energy is engaged in an unhappy or abusive relationship with a negative thinking or a mis-behaving person, you are vulnerable to illness and exhaustion. So much of your vital force goes into making things right that you become depleted.

2. Release Un-Wanted Thoughts

When you think about your past problems, your energy goes into them. Have you spent time thinking ahead of yourself into the future preparing, planning or worrying about what is yet to come? When you jump into the past or future events or situations it is difficult to appreciate and make the most of the present moment.

What you think about; you bring about.

When you spend time on unwanted thoughts or feelings it leaves less energy for you to just be.

3. Love Energy is Intoxicating

Can you remember feeling in love? Love energy is intoxicating. Access that intoxicating love energy to incorporate positive, loving feelings into your life.

Connecting to a loving feeling creates a feeling of safety and support. When you feel safe, you release anxiety, awkwardness and uneasiness, allowing your natural sexual expression to flow easily.

4. Increase Your Vibrant LOVE Essence

Reclaiming your energy will not only help stop unwanted thoughts, it will also decrease confusion and increase your ability to communicate with your own inner voice. To reclaim your own energy from people, places and situations, visualize a shimmering golden sun above your head.

Allow it to magnetically reclaim your energy from places where you left it. Then, with your imagination, bring the golden sun down into your body, replenishing all the cells of your body.

Imagine yourself engulfed with this powerful, vibrant essence of YOU.

5. Revitalize Your Self – Any Time, Any Where

You can replenish yourself all day long. While standing in a stagnant grocery line, after a grueling energy zapping meeting with your boss or during a soccer game with the kids, you can replenish your energy.

Remember, you can ‘re-energize’ yourself as often as desired. Begin to feel lighter, more alive, relaxed, and calm as you reclaim more of your energy. There is an infinite amount of energy you can reclaim for yourself.

When you have more of our own vital energy in your energetic space and body, you build momentum and attract more of what you desire. With practice, your energy becomes more powerful and magnetic.

Without effort, you develop clarity and effortlessly become what you want. Your natural effervescence will begin to bubble up as you release accumulated stress and radiate your natural sensuality.

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Why do i pick guys who are bad for me?

How often have you said to a your friends, ”I always seem to pick guys who are bad for me.”

According to Hypnotherapy specialist Roderick Piggott, women who experience a series of broken and unequal relationships, are often suffering from issues of low self-esteem and poor self-image.

This causes them to choose the wrong partners again and again.

Low self-esteem can really impact negatively on a persons quality of life, making them feel that they don’t deserve love and respect and are not fit to enjoy a proper, fulfilling relationship. Motivation levels can sink, leaving them feeling low and robbing them of any enthusiasm.

If you suffer from low self-esteem, you blame yourself for things that aren't your fault; you underestimate your abilities, and you expect things to go wrong for you.

Often, low self-esteem is associated with a range of other problems, such as lack of confidence, depression, anxiety, stress and jealousy. If you feel that your opinions and thoughts are worthless, you will find yourself unable to connect or communicate effectively with others, which can become a real issue.

This can be picked up by partners, leading to a shift in the balance of a relationship, turning it into something that is unequal and disadvantageous to the weaker partner. Frequently this leads to an abusive relationship and often the cycle is repeated many times.

It simply may not be the “wrong” man that you choose, it is very probable that a partner will become frustrated and lose respect. Attitudes then change taking the relationship off course.

There are many things that might happen in life that can cause low self-esteem. It could be a traumatic childhood, maybe a respected figure in your life belittled you, perhaps failure at a career or at school, or even a lack of social life or friends.

Whatever the causes, it is important to try and get your life back on track and get over these feelings of worthlessness for the sake of yourself and those around you. These negative emotions can reflect in everything you do and say, and can start to affect your whole life.

Women who realize that they need self-esteem help are often too embarrassed to admit to anyone that they have a problem, however many sufferers of low self-esteem are benefiting from hypnotherapy treatments at home, which can literally change peoples lives for the better.

Even though you may want to change the way you feel, to be confident in your thoughts and ideas, to have a sense of faith in your own abilities and know consciously that you are worthwhile and respected, your emotional subconscious mind knows different.

Your mind goes back to your deepest insecurities, together with the emotions that are held alongside those memories. Your beliefs are accessed. Your conscious and subconscious mind is in conflict.

The subconscious mind wins, every time because your emotions rule. You can change your beliefs by changing your emotions. Hypnosis can do this. And it is easy.

Hypnotherapy treatments work in a very natural way, People are constantly capable of change, which can happen more powerfully in an altered state. In this altered state, which we call hypnosis, suggestions to the sub-conscious mind can supply us with the feelings and emotions that go with imagination and creativity to bring about changes within your feeling system, your emotional system, and this can change your values, perceptions and beliefs.

It’s what makes hypnosis an incredibly powerful means to achieve your dreams.

Your subconscious mind has the power to end your struggle with your low self-esteem. Your life will improve if you begin to believe in yourself and your abilities, you will feel respected, giving you that extra boost to increase motivation, and your enthusiasm will increase noticeably.

Some people say it feels like magic because it is so easy to make powerful changes. Hypnotherapy simply allows you to access the resources you already have in your subconscious mind.

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Love is - be a best friend!

Men and women think so differently.

I have female readers telling me that they find men difficult to understand, and they complain to me that they do not really know what's their men thinking or wanting from their relationship with them.

Even I myself find it confusing in some of the women I've met... they tell me that they do not want their lovers to be their best friends, but if you ask these women, what exactly is their definition of love and relationship, you will find that most of them really have no clue about it, and they can't really say what they want in love and relationship! Most would only tell you they do not want this and that in their relationship, and most will tell you they want their men to do this and that...

Truth is, if you cannot even be a friend, a best friend to your guy, it is difficult to maintain such a relationship for a very long time. And of course, it takes time for a woman to realize this...

Here's a feedback from a guy who's still single... take a glimpse into the inside of a man's mind.

1) What do want and need in your Relationship (or Marriage)?

lots of love and trust, honesty and be open with each other, my partner has to be like my best friend
2) What do you want and need in Romance and Dating? What EXACTLY do you want from your Mate.

honestly, i just like to feel loved and appreciated.

3) What do you want and need in Sex?

I only enjoy it as much as the girl i'm with, so i just aim to please the more they like it the more i like it.

4) What do you look for in a Mate (or Soul mate)?

Honesty and trust

5) What turns you on?

...

6) What turns you off?

Hiding things

7) What do you (Secretly) wish your partner would know about you if you have a chance to convey that to your mate?

I'll tell my ex how much she hurt me and how very serious i am when i tell her i still love her

8) What is the greatest challenge you have about your relationship/marriage??

Not being in a relationship. But the last ended because she had small problems that she let build up, and never talked to me about any of them and just left me.

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