Sometimes, it’s just like in an old movie – you see him across the room at a crowded party, and your tummy does flip-flops. Or he could be someone you see at work, at school, or around the neighborhood. You take one look and you’re instantly attracted, and wondering how you could ever get his attention. Or maybe he’s someone you already know, or even someone you’ve started dating, and you wish more than anything you could sweep him off his feet.
What can you do to get him to fall for you just as hard? Well, there’s no guarantee for success, but there are a few things you can do to ease your way into his heart. We all have the ability to make ourselves attractive, get to know someone and make friends with them. We do it all the time. It takes a little more panache to get someone to fall in love with you, and you need to have realistic expectations. If you’re a rather plain-looking clerk who works in a grocery store, you’re not going to have much luck winning the heart of George Clooney. And if the man you’ve set your sights on has already rejected your early advances, he’s already made up his mind about what sort of a relationship he wants – or doesn’t want – to have with you.
But by being the best you that you can be and catching him when his guard is down, you might very well be able to get him to fall in love with you:
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Look as great as you can. Men are very visually oriented, so the better looking you are, the better your chances with him. Pay attention to your grooming – make sure your hair, skin, teeth and fingernails are clean and well-groomed. If you don’t have a natural gift for fashion or makeup, get a friend or professional to help you. It’s not necessary to look like a supermodel – just look like the best you that you can. The better you look, the better you’ll feel about yourself, and people find confidence devastatingly attractive.
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Get an honest assessment of your weaknesses. We all have unappealing things about ourselves that those close to us never tell us about. Maybe you have an annoying laugh, or perpetually bad breath. Perhaps your table manners are atrocious – whatever it is, convince close friends or family that you really need to know what it is – and then fix it!
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Become a good conversationalist. Another successful “people skill” is the ability to talk to anyone, anywhere, on any topic. Author Don Gabor has written a number of excellent books to help those whose conversation skills are weak, among them “How to Start a Conversation and Make Friends” and “Speaking Your Mind in 101 Difficult Situations.” Even if you don’t get help from a book, you can become a better conversationalist by simply listening to others with your full attention, responding with brief, well-considered comments, and knowing when it’s best to keep quiet. Popular people know the value of good social skills, and so should you. Smile at others, be friendly, and compliment other people in a sincere manner. Don’t be whiny, critical, or argumentative. And use your sense of humor!
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Catch him off-guard. You can get the man you find attractive to lower his guard with humor – a tasteful joke inspires shared laughter, which increases intimacy. Admit to some small mistakes or flaws – nothing too huge – so he’ll see you as a “real” person and related to you more. If the opportunity arises, gentle teasing is another way of lowering his guard, making him more vulnerable to your advances. Then up the ante by showing that you’re also sexy and kind – a killer combination. If you can get him to laugh at your jokes, look at your cleavage and appreciate how nice you are to your family or co-workers, you’ve won half the battle.
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Imprint on his memories. Be on the lookout for an especially happy, emotional moment for him, then do something very special that will make him notice and appreciate you during this special time. Experts call this “anchoring” – when he thinks of the happy event that brought him pleasure, he’ll associate you with the event and feel emotionally attached t you because of it. If he’s attracted to you, it’s a short leap from this emotional anchoring to actively seeking out more of the good feelings he associates with you – after which you can keep adding happy, fun memories until he’s sure that a big part of happiness is you. In order to link the positive emotions of a peak moment with you on another person, you must do or say something unique or even shocking that sets you apart from other stimulus. That way when the other person recalls that memorable moment, they will automatically think of you as being part of the cause for their good feelings.
“Falling in love” is a combination of physical attraction and good emotional associations. No matter what you do, he may not fall in love with you – but by knowing how to stack the odds in your favor, you have a much better chance of winning his heart.
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