What Men Want: When HIS World Comes Tumbling Down
Many men go through rough times in their life. It may be a mid life crisis or just an anytime crisis. There are plenty of men who believe that they can do better as far as their relationship goes. They think there is someone out there that is a perfect match for them and it is not you. This can be a very hard time in the woman’s life as well. It is hard to hear that the man she loves thinks that he can do better than her. It can be devastating to a relationship.So what can you do with a man who keep saying YOU deserve better and sabotaging his own relationship as a result??
Men will push your limits
Some men out there actually try and sabotage their own relationship to make it seem like there is something wrong. They will do thinks to make the relationship seem rocky just to prove a point. The point being that they are in a bad relationship that needs to be revaluated. This is a very low and manipulative way to make the woman feel like she is the problem.
Many men go through bad periods in their lifetime. They may be having a hard time at work, with a family member or just anything in general. These are all things that can make a man step back and think to him that he needs to change something in his life. Although you have nothing to do with these problems, he may feel like this is his one chance to make it out of the relationship. This is when you have to be willing to either let him go or fight for what you want.
How to deal with a man that needs a reality check
Many men do not even realize how good they have it with their relationship. They may not see the entire picture and they might have to have a “reality check.” This may be the only way to truly make them see that they have it good where they are and they need to understand that.
This is something that many men do need help with. They always think that maybe the grass is a little greener on the other side. Not true, at least most of the time.
You will have to find a way to make your man see that you love him like no one else will. You may have to do a little work on yourself and on this project, but if you are truly serious about keeping your relationship and knocking this nonsense out of him, you have to be prepared for it. You need to have the right tools. This may mean that you have to play a little dirty in order to get what you want. You have to get down to business in order to prove to him that you are the perfect woman for him.
What to do with a man that shuts down
Many men do start to push their partner away during a hard time. Sometimes a man will feel as if he can do better with something else in his life and this is why he is pushing the other person away. They may also feel like they are a disappointment to the woman just as they are in another real life situation.
However, if you are really devoted to this man, you will want to try and make them see that you want to be there for them and that you are going to see them through this problem no matter what it takes or how long. This is a sign of true love and devotion to the man.
If he still pushes you away, then maybe you need to take a break. Maybe some time away from each other will put the old feelings back into his mind and make him see that he loves you and
that you are the right person for him.
Time is really the best healer of all. With time, things change and people have the ability to reflect on the things that they have done and what the future may hold for them with or without the person that they love.
How to get him back on track
If you are not willing to give up and take some time off, you may want to go another route. You may want to try and WOW him in the relationship. You can try and bring some fun and excitement into the once hot relationship. You can dress a little more provocative. This will either make him happy or get him thinking that maybe you are dressing this way for someone else. This will defiantly get him thinking about what he wants in his life.
If he still has no reaction to you and to your efforts, you need to move on. You should go out with your friends and have a good time. He may just see that you are getting along without him and have a great time. He may see that he has made a mistake and wants to be part of your life again. This may be the medicine that gets him feeling the way that he used to and get him back on track.
You do not have to just sit back and wait for your man to see that you are someone special and that you are worthy of him. You may not want to even try to make yourself seem worthy to someone who does not already see it, but if you are in love with the man who is going through some hard times in life, you may want to try. You need to put your efforts into it so that you are able to make the most of your relationship without sacrificing yourself esteem.
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