A woman needs to learn to tell the truth, even if it hurts someone's feelings!

Most women have tendency to "think too much" i think, and of course i do not mean ALL women are behaving in this way.

I have female friends who are 'on the other side of the extreme'... they tend to live 'too much' in the moment, so they do not think much about the consequences of the decisions they are making or the actions they are taking...

Many times, if you do not think a little bit more about the consequences of your own actions and decisions, it can lead to undesirable results and outcomes.

On the other hand, for some of these people, it seems that heaven luck is on their side. Even though they do things a little bit too quick without thinking a little more about the consequences of their own behaviors, it does seem that they tend to be able to jump on various golden 'opportunitues' just a little ahead of everyone else!

I know how hard it can be for a man to try to persuade his woman once the girl is already suspecting on him.

"A woman needs to learn to tell the truth...even if it hurts someones feelings!!!" - this is a cool insight from a reader of mine who's divorced.

So if you are a woman reading this, there's a deep implication here. Relationship counsellors tell us that couples needs to have good communication for a long lasting, blissful relationship; but many relationship therapists seldom tell you that HUMAN communication is the hardest thing on earth.

Sometimes, you get ALL the truths that you want to know about life and relationships just by quieting down and stay silent for a moment. It works for me in my own case.

And remember, most men hate it when women nag and nag non-stop...just be more aware of that! :-)

1) What do want and need in your Relationship (or Marriage)?

That I am not gong to cheat on her and that she should just relax....

2) What do you want and need in Romance and Dating? What EXACTLY do you want from your Man.

Cooking Cleaning and Good Sex...lol

A woman needs to learn to tell the truth...even if it hurts someones feelings!!!

3) What do you want and need in Sex?

Once a day keeps the Doctor away....Sex is heathy for you...It's a fact!!!!

4) What do you look for in a Mate (or Soul mate)?

Honesty & Understanding

5) What turns you on?

If she is A Lady in the street and A Freak in the bed.....

7) What turns you off?

Cougars & MILFs

8) What do you (Secretly) wish your partner would know about you if you have a chance to convey that to her?

I would risk my life to save hers

Life is hard because we are both human...that we are not perfect!!!!

Men & Women do not think the same...so we do bicker alittle... I think that it is good to have healthy discourse between two adults...lol

Keeping my cool when she starts nagging..... I explain that nagging me is not helping... right now... And if she presist... Then I remove myself from the situation for 24hrs or until.... The nagging has stopped...

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Men do not like women who lie too

What does a single man look for in a woman?? Find out from this man who's single!

1) What do want and need in your Relationship (or Marriage)?
honesty, trust, respect, appreciation

2) What do you want and need in Romance and Dating? What EXACTLY do you want from your Girl.
understanding, honesty

3) What do you want and need in Sex?
havent reached that stage yet

4) What do you look for in a Mate (or Soul mate)?
honesty, loves me for who I am

5) What turns you on?
goodlooks, a wonderful SELFLESS character

6) What turns you off?
Lies

7) What do you (Secretly) wish your partner would know about you if you have a chance to convey that to her?
the extent of my love, no matter how much she knows already, I would like to remind her how much she meant to me

8) What Do You Find MOST Challenging or Difficult about Your Love, Relationship and Marriage?
understanding, it is either her way or she will get upset, she is a person who needs to be in control

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Men can be tender and sensitive too!

This is a deep, honest, beautiful relevation from a (single) guy. Some women might think that men are 'unfeeling' since many of them do not talk much about their feelings when it comes to their relationships. So it's really a cool one, women should read this!!! Men look for loyalty and honesty in their relationships too! :)

1) What do want and need in your Relationship (or Marriage)?

honesty, respect, communication, appreciation, devotion, undying love and above all faithfullness.

2) What do you want and need in Romance and Dating? What EXACTLY do you want from your Girl (or Wife).

honesty, openness, faithfullness and two becoming one.

4) What do you want and need in Sex?

everything no limitations

5) What do you look for in a Mate (or Soul mate)?

pride in appearance; tenderness; public displays of affection; confidence in self; articulate; intelligence; someone to make me better in all phases of my life; willing to give up their life for me or me them if it ever came to that; unselfishness.

6) What turns you on?

inner beauty and confidence.

7) What turns you off?

dishonesty; shyness; inability to hold a conversation; holding on to the past; anger; lack of sexual interest; not being spontaneous; lack of adventure.

8) What do you (Secretly) wish your partner would know about you if you have a chance to convey that to her?

how tender and sensitive I am. That I am the most romantic man in the world as it relates to her. That above all else they are the most important person in everything I do in life.

9) What Do You Find MOST Challenging or Difficult about Your Love, Relationship and Marriage?

how tender and sensitive I am. That I am the most romantic man in the world as it relates to her. That above all else they are the most important person in everything I do in life.

10) What is your TOP Problem in your relationship that you wish to resolve.

I was never able to talk with her about how stupid and immature the reason we broke up was. I tried very hard for weeks and weeks to get her to talk to me after a 1.5 year relationship and she would not do it. It made me feel that what we had and what we shared meant nothing to her. I don't believe that was the case but by her not talking to me that was how I felt. It made me angry and depressed for quite some time and made me question myself. Eventually through mediatation and God's influence I realized that I was not the problem and that she was the person who lost more than I did.

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How to Make Any Guy Fall in Love: It’s No Secret—Start with the Stomach

I’m sure you’ve heard your mother or grandmother say that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. I bet you never thought they were right!




True, you need more than culinary skills to pull off a successful relationship, but trust me, no guy would ever complain about his girlfriend cooking too well!



Believe it or not, most men want a women who takes care of him in a motherly way without being too much like his own mother. He wants you to do his laundry, buy his toilet paper, and yes, cook for him. Looking to start a new step in your relationship?



Give cooking a try to help your main man fall madly in love.


1) Where to Start

If you never baked bread with your mom, or even learned how to boil water on the stove to make pasta, cooking may be a bit of a challenge for you. Luckily, you’re not on your own.



You can us a variety of techniques to start learning the basics of maneuvering around a kitchen. Once you’ve learned the first few skills, the rest won’t seem very difficult at all!


Check out your local bookstore. Cookbooks come in all shapes and sizes, and there are even some for beginners or young adults.



Choose a book that has recipes that sound tasty to you—if you won’t taste-test, you shouldn’t serve to a guest; that’s my rule. Make sure you start with recipes for meals. Desserts can be fun to make (and eat), but baking is more difficult than cooking, so if you’re new to this game, don’t try to bake a cake from scratch on your first day!



While in the bookstore, you can check out some great food magazines as well. These come with recipes as well as handy articles containing numerous hints for new chefs.


Television is a great place to learn as well. Check out the networks solely devoted to food, as well as other channels that showcase the preparation of recipes. When you see something being done, you can get a feel for how to do things.



You can even TiVo or record the show so that you can follow along at your own pace and make the same meal!


For advanced beginners or those who completely want to dive into the world of food, check out the classes at your local community center or at a junior college. Sign up for some that sound fun and interesting! You’ll shell out a little more money this way, but you’ll get one-on-one instruction from some great chefs.


2) The Menu


Of course, when you’ve cooking for another person, like your sweetie, it’s always best to find out ahead of time what he likes to eat!



If your boyfriend is allergic to chocolate, for example, taking a chocoholic baking class may not be very helpful. If you want your new culinary skills to be a surprise and really make your man melt, simple take notice to what he grabs off of a buffet line or orders at a restaurant.



When in doubt, call his mother. She may even be able to share the exact recipes he loves best.


3) The Big Day

When you learn to cook, you can continue to please your man daily (or every once in awhile at least, if you aren’t ambitious enough to cook dinner every day).



However, after learning a new skill, you can really get your honey’s mouth to drop if you plan a very special meal just for him. Set the mood for love—buy some candles, pop open a great bottle of wine, and have a little mood music ready.

Make the setting even more romantic by keeping the work you’ve done under wraps. Who wants to stare at a pile of dirty dishes as they eat?



You probably won’t have time to clean up before serving dinner, so if you don’t have a separate dining room, set up a card table in the living room. With the lights dimmed and rose petals sprinkled around, it’ll seem like a four-star restaurant.


Remember, however, that you boyfriend will be focused the most on the food. Prepare everything to perfection and be sure to keep courses hot. Enlist a friend to help you prep during the day if you’re still a little nervous.



Don’t worry too much though—even if you burn dinner, it’s the thought that counts.



When your boyfriend get that first bite, he’ll see how much effort you’re putting into making the relationship work. Love is only a pork chop away.



- Cucan Pemo
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Save The Marriage: How to Keep Your Man in 7 Easy Steps

Men say that they are rational and that women are emotional. Women, however, believe that men are half-deaf and that they are the rational ones.

This is one of the reasons that some marriages seem to self-destruct. Men and women simply have different ways of communicating!

Ladies, if you’d like to save your marriage, follow these simple steps and you can save a marriage that is struggling or make a good marriage even stronger.

Step 1. Change the Way You Talk

Men speak differently than women do, which means that they hear things differently as well. My friend Elise once said to her husband that she missed having another couple to spend time with and he thought that she meant she was bored with being with him.

It may be totally irrational to ladies, but it makes sense to men. While a man’s ego is in his pants, his insecurities are in his ears, and he can hear things that you never say or mean.

Make sure that he understands what you are saying, and if he misunderstands, change the way you’re saying it so that he gets it correctly.

Step 2. Talk to His Buddies

If your relationship is rocky, talk with his buddies. While a woman’s best friends may have a hard time telling their friend’s husband about his wife’s problem, a man’s best friend usually doesn’t.

Talk with them and try to figure out what his real take is on the relationship. Chances are you will hear that your husband has been saying glowing things about you, as men can more easily talk to their friends than they can to their wives.

Step 3. Be “Wifely”

In this modern day and age women often expect men to do at least half of the housework. The problem comes when a woman takes her husband for granted and allows him to do almost everything around the house.

No matter how busy you are, or how frustrated or tired you are, take a few minutes out to be “wifely”. If he’s lounging on a chair, ask him if he’d like a drink.

If he takes a lunch to work and usually makes his own, make one for him every once in awhile. It may seem like a small thing, but trust me, it will be greatly appreciated.

Step 4. Show Him Your Desires

A man likes nothing better than to know that his wife desires him. Show him how much you desire him. Take him dancing and dance close with him like you used to do. Take a shower together and bump up against him.

Men, like women, like to feel desired, so make sure that your man knows how much you desire him.

Step 5. The Way to His Heart

What is the way to your man’s heart? Is it through sports, or is it through food? Rediscover the way to your man’s heart and join him on his quest to enjoy it.

If he loves sports, try to get involved. If he enjoys food, learn how to cook some gourmet food together. If he is into reading, read the same book and discuss it between the two of you. Most men enjoy having their wives with them, so find ways to be together.

Step 6. Sex Isn’t Everything

Here’s where we go against everything that most women learn at an early age. Yes, men enjoy sex…however…they often enjoy it much more when it’s withheld for awhile.

Instead of jumping right into bed, especially if you’re fighting, abstain for a bit. Take time instead to touch, cuddle, and talk to one another. It may frustrate your man in the beginning, but sooner than later he’ll realize what you’re doing and why and will come to appreciate you more. Men like to be held too, so curl up against his back at night and hold him.

Step 7. Tell Him Everything

As I’ve said before, men often hear things that their wife never said. Their imagination tends to go wild and they start thinking that their wife no longer loves them or finds them attractive. This is because some men are a lot more fragile than they’d ever have you believe.

Instead of hiding things from him “just to make it easier”, tell him everything. Don’t hide anything from him.

If you’re thinking about going shopping with another couple, tell him. If you want to purchase a new dress, talk about it. The more you inject him into your life, the more he’ll be able to relax about the relationship.

Men are just as difficult to understand as women. Unlike women, they hide their feelings because they believe it to be the “manly” thing to do. If you want to save your marriage, don’t let him hide. Give him all of yourself and make him give all of himself so that your marriage can survive.

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All he wants is --- to be himself...

Learn what a single guy looks for in his relationship!

Whether you are a woman or a man, You should read about how he FEELS women look at guys at times... it's really insightful! And it makes one thinks hard...are women really so complex and complicated in their thinking and what they want??

Maybe...

And all that he wants is simple - to be himself!!

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Qn: What do you want and need in your Relationship?

a girl is a good start..this hinders the first question!

Qn: What do you want and need in Romance and Dating?

she has to be of the female species and has to like sports and be intelligent and sarcastic at times and funny. i don't drink or smoke or shoot drugs. Never have and never will. so I do not go to bars and like a more romantic or fun eventfull evening!

Qn: What do you want and need in sex?

ummmm.....the physical stuff

Qn: What do you look for in a mate or soulmate?

a soul. they also have to be fun, intellegent, a little sarcasm never hurt anybody! they have to love me for who I am and I love the confident carry themselves well, but passionate and i love sensitive girls. ( like ones that cry during some movies)

Qn: What turns you on?

sarcasm...but the intelligent sarcasm, deep staring eyes that pierce me everytime our eyes meet. so much so that I melt on the inside and look away blushing!

Qn: What turns you off?

the really tomboy girls, or rude women, or someone who only wants a guy to get laid!

Qn: What do you (secretly) wish your partner would know about you if you have a change to convey that to her?

I have a bit of an an anger problem due to low self-esteem, and for some time resented my very existance! I have been working through this. Just dont go digging up my lawn to look for my sister!

Qn: What do you find most challenging or difficult about your love, relationship or marriage?

I just do not know what women like so I try to be different with each women. my progress so far has taught me that women do not like nice guys cause they appear weak, the tough guy is an asshole, the funny guy can be too wierd at times or take nothing seriously! the shy guy is weak or unstable inside, the passionate guy is clingy, the romantic guy is pushing the relationship thing too hard, the geeky guy is only here to be made fun of and boost others self-esteem and ego, the smart guy thinks hes all that, the dumb guy is not smart enough, and the perfect guy seems too good to be true. If I am myslef then I make a great FRIEND! no more and no less!

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Loving a Married Man - The Forbidden Fruit!

You can’t help who you’re attracted to.

It’s true, you honestly can’t! You may find yourself sexually attracted to someone who is exactly like you, or to someone who is your polar opposite.

You can be attracted to someone who is much older, or to someone who is quite a few years younger. But what do you do when you realize that you are attracted and desperately in love with a married man?

1) The Bounds of Matrimony

Marriage is a sacred institution. Well, it used to be.

It used to be that you got married and stayed married until the day you died. Now, however, people get married often for the wrong reasons.

Look at the example set by some of the more popular celebrities. Take the former pop princess Britney Spears. She was married to her first husband, Jason Alexander, for all of a few hours before filing for an annulment.

And Lisa Marie Presley, that famous daughter of the King’s, was married to Nicholas Cage for all of three months!

Marriage now doesn’t mean what it used to, which is why, quite often, a woman will fall in love with a man who is in a disastrous marriage.

These men are often easy to fall in love with, because they are out there looking for someone to help them take the pain away from the horrible marriage that they are already in.

2) Steps To Take

The first thing you need to do when you fall in love with a married man is to get CLEAR about what you want in your life and love relationship.

Unfortunately, there are those men that take advantage of their sad situation by sleeping with as many women as they can.

These men are few and far between, but you first need to make sure that the object of your obsession is falling in love the way you are falling in love with him.

Talk to him. Explain that you have strong feelings for him and that you would like to further your relationship. Make sure that his marriage is truly rocky, because if it is not, things could become horrible before the situation is fully resolved.

Truth is, very often you are NOT really in love with the man himself; you are "in love" with going through that kind of challenges of getting a hard-to-get man!!! Most women will deny this; BUT if you really think hard about it, you'll learn I'm speaking about the truths here.

If, however, your man feels the same way about you that you feel about him, it’s time to move things forward. I have often discourage my readers to go after a married man; but it his divorce is final and BOTH of you are very clear about what you want, there is no reason why you should not pursue this kind of relationship.

The crucial thing is - be prepared to take up FULL responsibility for all that will happen afterwards. In short, take full responsibility for all the outcomes!

3) To Sleep With Or Not?

This is the tricky question: do you sleep with your love or do you abstain until the marriage is officially over.

Some condemn women who make love to men who are still married, while others, usually those who have been in the same situation, understand all of the complexities and are much more forgiving.

Divorces can take years, so the decision as to whether or not to sleep with your love shouldn’t be made lightly.

For instance, if the man and his wife are separated, that is legally as binding as a divorce. It means that the relationship is officially on the downswing and that things will most likely be ending soon.

If, however, the man is still living with his wife, you may want to wait for a bit. Society should not be able to dictate your love for each other, but remember that it could make things a bit stickier when the divorce approaches, and that abstaining for awhile can make things easier and better later down the road.

4) When Kids Are Involved

The really tricky part in loving a married man comes if there are kids involved. The best advice that I can give you in loving a man with children is to stay out of it.

Be there to support your lover, but do not try to get in the middle of any argument he and the mother of the children are having.

You can enjoy the children, and can even raise them as your own should it come to that, but do not involve yourself with the mother. Trust me when I say that.

Your lover, the mother of the children, and the children themselves will thank you down the road for staying a neutral party.

If, after a significant amount of time, your love has not officially left his wife, it may be time to re-think things.

There should be no excuses, after a year or so, of a man who has talked about leaving his wife to still be with her. It is acceptable to make an ultimatum after a good amount of time has passed, but be prepared for your lover to choose his wife.

When it comes to loving a married man, you are the woman on the side, until such a time that he makes you his bride instead.

~ Cucan Pemo

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Why Men Love Bitches: Is it true that men just love bitches???

Just like women, you will find some men like a stronger woman.

They look for women who know how to carry their own. Men are attracted to women are tough, because they lack being tough themselves. You will want to consider the fact that you are going to want to be naturally tough. When you think about the tough image, you have to walk the walk and talk the talk.

You cannot fake something like this. You will want to make sure that you do everything you can to be yourself when on a date. There is a truth behind the toughness. These types of women are less likely to become attached too quickly and they are confident women.

Men like confidence, however, they don't like bosses.

There is a difference between being a tough women and being a bitch. A bitch is really someone who knows how things need to be done and when it should be done. They are very controlling and they like to start trouble.

Men don't want someone who is uptight. They just want to be with someone who can stand their own ground and someone who can make it on their own. They just don't want someone to tell them what to do, but they want someone who is equally independent.

They need to have someone who is willing to take over when things get really difficult. Those who are stronger will be better life partners because men feel they can lean on their stronger partner for support when times are rough. However, when it comes to being a bitch, you are so controlling that it is unbearable.

You need to learn the difference between being a strong woman and being a bitch. You don't want to come off like you are a bitch or someone who is overbearing, but you will want to think about what you can do to stand strong for your principals.

There are men, however, who do like to be controlled and pushed around because they cannot control themselves. This is not a good relationship. First, you do not control your mate, but you do need to support them.

Also, you need to make sure that later the relationship doesn't become on that is depending. You don't need someone to depend on you, and you wouldn't want someone to look up to you for such much advice that they are unable to focus on life.

These types of relationships take too much energy from someone and it can be very straining.
You will want to learn how to change your personality a little if you would consider yourself a bitch. You don't want to be a bitch, but you will want to be a strong woman.

Also, when you think of someone like a bitch, you will find that they have a mouth on them. First of all, men don't like women who they can't take out to a park or home to their mommy. They need a strong woman, but they also need a woman who can refrain from acting like that.

You still need to be a lady at times. You need to still have manners. The key to being a strong woman and not a bitch is having a plan.

Most strong women plan a lot. They have a five-year plan, and some will have a 15-year plan. They know what they want and how to get it, but they don't feel the need to control others around them. They are good supports.

When their mate is completely lost they are able to help them stand up after they have been knocked down. They don't make choices for their mate, but they are able to strongly suggest what is best through knowledge and experience.

Men really don't like bitches, but they like to have someone who can guide them. They will have someone in their life to help them make good choices and that someone needs to be a strong woman.

It's hard to balance out the difference between a strong woman and a bitch. You don't want to be a bitch, but you do need to show others that you are able to stand strong through the toughest of times.

You will find that there are a lot of people who lack ambition and a strong woman will never lack ambition. They are filled with ideas and knowledge to help them get whatever they want. The fact that a strong woman could get whatever she wanted is what attracts men.

~ Cucan Pemo
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