Here's an entry from a guy who's divorced. From his writing alone, you can tell that he is VERY clear about what he wants, and it does seem he is very clear about his own character and habitual patterns. His main problem lie in trying to understand women. It is equally that both men and women try to understand the differences in how men and women view and interpret this world that we are in, because men can think very differently from women. This guy is a good example of a guy who loves to fix things (round the house), and it is clear he has a pretty logical mind, and he looks at his world from a logical point of view, but do all women look at this world from a logical point of view, to a certain extent yes, but might not be up to the level of this man.
It is well said by him, "that it is not possible to have a female carbon copy of myself with exactly the same interests"!
1) What do want and need in your Relationship (or Marriage)? A woman who UNDERSTANDS me, and who likes to discuss and participate with me in my interests in various technologies. I do understand however, that it is not possible to have a female carbon copy of myself with exactly the same interests. Therefore, we should have the ability, in terms of good communication, to be able to discuss each others interests without creating conflict or boredom.
2) What do you want and need in Romance and Dating? What EXACTLY do you want from your Mate. Romantic, caring, empathic, compassionate, nurturing, sharing of interests, mutual understanding and good sense of humor. Ability to be flexible. Appreciation of nature and the outdoors. Spiritual (no religious or any other kind of fanaticism). A love of intellectual knowledge and ability to enjoy discussing knowledge from various areas of science and technology.
3) What do you want and need in Sex? Sweet shapely woman (not too skinny, but also not obese) who is in excellent health and great physical condition. Who enjoys good healthy sex and loves doing it. I am NOT into cruelty, bondage, and all the other kinds of negativity I have read about that passes (as mediocre, perverted excuse) for sex in America.
4) What do you look for in a Mate (or Soul mate)? Mutual understanding on all levels, including the intellectual which is very important to me. Also someone who is spiritually on the same path but not necessarily the same religion.
5) What turns you on? Good health and energy. Big boobs. Nice shapely figure. Tasteful moderate use of quality perfume or cologne, natural long hair without perm or other poisons. If she uses no makeup, that is perfectly fine with me as I do not like lipstick and all those artificial paints and plasters. However, I do appreciate products that a woman may use to preserve healthy complexion. Cleanliness and proper personal hygiene. Ability to carry on intelligent conversations.
6) What kind of woman turns you off?
Obesity, sloppiness, poor hygiene, lack of education, poverty consciousness, poor conversational skills and inability to hold intelligent conversation.
7) What do you (Secretly) wish your partner would know about you if you have a chance to convey that to your mate?My intellectual abilities in science, technology and general technical issues. My vast general knowledge, which I have accumulated since I started reading science books when I was eight years old, on many technical subjects. The fact that I am an honest man and want to share love and intimacy with an equally good woman with the right qualities. A woman who can pamper me with good cooking sometimes, while I pamper her by using my technical know-how to fix things around the house.
8) What is the greatest challenge you have about your relationship/marriage??Help in dealing with the inevitable problems and conflicts and misunderstandings which arise from us having different habits. For example, she likes to pile all kinds of non-food-related items (such as books, magazines, her glasses, cellphone, calculator, newspapers, even clothes) on the DINING table. I was not raised this way and I feel more comfortable with a clear dining table. In addition, leaving drawers dangling (partly) open is to me a very disruptive sight and is also bad FengShui. I also dislike bringing any food into bedroom or study room/office. Seems as though it is difficult if not impossible, to find someone who has clean habits. Big problem is when I try to discuss any of this stuff with her, she gets very defensive and angry.
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