What men want and like in a woman

Here's an entry from a guy who's still single. From his words I could feel that he's a good man, kind-hearted and possessing a good nature. However, human is not so simple. There is an ancient chinese saying, that says that "the most difficult knowledge in this world that you will have to learn is to - understand a human being!"

And this is very true. I learn this the hard way. We all wish that we could tell our lovers honestly what we would like them to know, and in reality, when we try to convey what we FEEL are our messages, do you know that many times, they don't get it??

It's not your fault. It's not their fault. That is being human. Human language is very, very, very limited in that sense, and yet we all have no choice, we still have to communicate using human language! During the highest level of your soul development, you will come to the point that you will understand that - that best communication is the quietest one, it's telepathic, it's the purest form of communication. But, until YOU come to realize that for yourself, you are going to learn some hard lessons that life will throw at you.

1) What do want and need in your Relationship (or Marriage)?

I want to have a partner who is a good listener and also good at telling about her feelings, ideas and thoughts. I need someone who is compatible with me when it comes to problem-solving, doing it in a calm and nice way. There has to be lots of laughter and willingness to do lots of things together. To be there for each other both in bad and good times.

2) What do you want and need in Romance and Dating? What EXACTLY do you want from your Mate.

I want an intelligent and interesting partner/date. Someone who is able to talk about a wide variety of things. Romantically, the best thing I know is cuddling and just being close to each other. Walking hand in hand is also romantic, especially in a beautiful city on a hot summer day. Being in a hot tub together with some champagne is also romantic.

3) What do you want and need in Sex?

First of all, understanding and respect from both sides. Sometimes when the other one does not feel like having sex one has to respect that wish. To be communicative about sex - what is interesting to explore and what is not, is this good/comfortable for my partner, should I do it a bit differently - simply to be open about ones wishes and to listen what the other one wants. No faking.

4) What do you look for in a Mate (or Soul mate)?

Compatibility! Mutual hobbies, a feeling that we are perfect for each other. The joy of just thinking about each other. Same kind of humor. A pure feeling of happiness because of the compatibility.

5) What turns you on?

A woman who is intelligent and a great kisser. When she looks at me in that special way. Natural beauty.

6) What turns you off?

Too much make-up and artificial beauty like fake breasts and so on... A big ego - "look at me, I´m best, I´m the most beautiful and sexy and you are nothing" - kind of a thing. Huge sunglasses that cover half the face - goes often with a selfish attitude.

7) What do you (Secretly) wish your partner would know about you if you have a chance to convey that to your mate?

Since I see my future partner being my soulmate and being compatible with me, I don´t feel that my partner would secretly (in a secret way) need to know anything because I would tell her honestly what I would like her to know.

8) What is the greatest challenge you have about your relationship/marriage??

Right now I´m single. Two and a half years ago I was left by the love of my life. Back then I did not understand how she could leave me because we were so perfect for each other. She said that she left me because she felt being "too loved". Those words almost cost me my life. I got deeply confused and depressed, resulting in a bad health. This was something I did not count on even in my wildest dreams. Something like that just doesn´t exist... but still it happened. Now I know that her self-esteem was/is basically non-existent and that she blamed me because she did not know why she was feeling that way. She does not believe in self-improvement and that´s because change scares her too much. I have tried to help her but she ignores me.

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