What Men Want From Women: Being on the same page...

Most men want to be able to communicate well with their lovers too, so it's not only the women wanting effective communication with their loved ones! And men look for women whom they can trust too, because many of them are also looking for committed relationships!

This is why this guy here writes: "Being able to fully trust them when they come by, not knowing if they are there because they truly want to spend time with you or are they playing mind games, with ones emotions and or heartfelt feelings... Not knowing if they are or have some type of mental problem like Bi-Polar or border line skitz and is why they can't seem to open up because of past problems... Communication skills!!! Just them being plain honest with no agenda. ... it would be nice to be able to just spend time and talk about the small stuff and not be overbearing and be able to enjoy each others company without any after thoughts of whether I did or may have done or said something wrong."

1) What do want and need in your Relationship (or Marriage)?

I need committed truthful friendship, understanding and a trusting relationship that we can develop. While at the same time have the understanding for each other to let them be and do what they have to, too feel useful and prosper in their own way and yet commit to helping each other along the way without getting in the way. Or making them feel that they are in an overbearing relationship. And work together.

2) What do you want and need in Romance and Dating? What EXACTLY do you want from your Mate.

Like most in friendship and relationships, in the romance dept. with the electronic age upon us, since we are out pounding the pavement to make and maintain a life it is nice to once in a while receive little things like a text message on the phone that will leave one thinking of what might happen that evening, whether it be a quite dinner together, a walk holding hands talking about whatever one feels the need too talk about.

A card or note one might leave in your car etc. But truly spending time together and plainly having the mindset of how wonderful your inner self feels while being with your mate, and expressing those feelings to one another and not making them feel cornered and that they can't feel comfortable being with you, with no expectations because of what they or you might do for them.

3) What do you want and need in Sex?

I have a lot of passion and love to give in that dept. and I love to do everything sexually, but too truly enjoy it, it has too be with that special someone that you care about that lives in your subconscious and heart, and that makes you feel special when your with them. And being spontanous!

4) What do you look for in a Mate (or Soul mate)?

One that is honest, truthful, and loving. The chemistry is awesome when the two come together. And you can't stay out of each others arms for a very long period of time when together. Great communication and understanding, of each others needs, but also understand their needs and wishes in life to let them be whom they are and help them if they ask or hint for it. Being on the same page...

5) What turns you on?

Spontanous interactions with just a touch and eye contact. Of course as I said great chemistry. And knowing within your self their desire so you can make it fun for the both of you with little but quaint interactions,

6) What turns you off?

Not communicating truthfully, not being able to count on what that person says they will do. Understandably situations arise that can't be helped. And the loss of trust in that person due to their actions.

The use of psychological manipulation to get what you want when in a relationship, when your both suppose to be able to be open too one another and not have to worry about them having an agenda, playing games with ones heart and mind set because of maybe something that happened in their past life. We all have a past of ups and downs but when in a relationship or in love you or they need to learn to not use the other for their own benefit.

7) What do you (Secretly) wish your partner would know about you if you have a chance to convey that to your mate?

How much I truly care for them, that I understand, to only what has been conveyed to me by them that I will help when I can or when they ask. And that I will and have learned to give them their space that they need to be themselves and I myself. And have learned not to be jealous or overbearing, too care for them for whom they are and not judge them for the situations or relations that they or I have been previously in.

To enjoy them for whom they are, and the moment we are in when we are together. And that they can be honest with me as I them, along with truthfulness, and being trust worthy.

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