Sunday, January 13, 2008

Men and Bitches: You don't want to be a bitch, but you will want to be a strong woman!

Just like women, you will find some men like a stronger woman.

They look for women who know how to carry their own. Men are attracted to women are tough, because they lack being tough themselves. You will want to consider the fact that you are going to want to be naturally tough. When you think about the tough image, you have to walk the walk and talk the talk.

You cannot fake something like this. You will want to make sure that you do everything you can to be yourself when on a date. There is a truth behind the toughness. These types of women are less likely to become attached too quickly and they are confident women.

Men like confidence, however, they don't like bosses.

There is a difference between being a tough women and being a bitch. A bitch is really someone who knows how things need to be done and when it should be done. They are very controlling and they like to start trouble.

Men don't want someone who is uptight. They just want to be with someone who can stand their own ground and someone who can make it on their own. They just don't want someone to tell them what to do, but they want someone who is equally independent.

They need to have someone who is willing to take over when things get really difficult. Those who are stronger will be better life partners because men feel they can lean on their stronger partner for support when times are rough. However, when it comes to being a bitch, you are so controlling that it is unbearable.

You need to learn the difference between being a strong woman and being a bitch. You don't want to come off like you are a bitch or someone who is overbearing, but you will want to think about what you can do to stand strong for your principals.

There are men, however, who do like to be controlled and pushed around because they cannot control themselves. This is not a good relationship. First, you do not control your mate, but you do need to support them.

Also, you need to make sure that later the relationship doesn't become on that is depending. You don't need someone to depend on you, and you wouldn't want someone to look up to you for such much advice that they are unable to focus on life.

These types of relationships take too much energy from someone and it can be very straining.
You will want to learn how to change your personality a little if you would consider yourself a bitch. You don't want to be a bitch, but you will want to be a strong woman.

Also, when you think of someone like a bitch, you will find that they have a mouth on them. First of all, men don't like women who they can't take out to a park or home to their mommy. They need a strong woman, but they also need a woman who can refrain from acting like that.

You still need to be a lady at times. You need to still have manners. The key to being a strong woman and not a bitch is having a plan.

Most strong women plan a lot. They have a five-year plan, and some will have a 15-year plan. They know what they want and how to get it, but they don't feel the need to control others around them. They are good supports.

When their mate is completely lost they are able to help them stand up after they have been knocked down. They don't make choices for their mate, but they are able to strongly suggest what is best through knowledge and experience.

Men really don't like bitches, but they like to have someone who can guide them. They will have someone in their life to help them make good choices and that someone needs to be a strong woman.

It's hard to balance out the difference between a strong woman and a bitch. You don't want to be a bitch, but you do need to show others that you are able to stand strong through the toughest of times.

You will find that there are a lot of people who lack ambition and a strong woman will never lack ambition. They are filled with ideas and knowledge to help them get whatever they want. The fact that a strong woman could get whatever she wanted is what attracts men.

~ Cucan Pemo
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